PANDI'S PRAYER

It was Easter weekend. Contemplating Jesus coming out of the tomb, out of the darkness, the cold, a separation unimaginable… Thinking of Mary watching her son… Then seeing him walk out. All of these cause a pause and I reflect on the year. New life. Rebirth. A hope and a future I know is there, even when I don’t feel it. When I don’t see it. I missed my kids this weekend; My boys and their amazing wives. The most adorable grandkids on the planet. And Andrea. But, I saw some

How do I navigate a day such as this? I smiled with the first bite… Yes, she was correct…the vanilla, whatever the ice cream it is…is soooo good in a drink… I imagine her & I meeting at Chick Fil A, wondering what she’d be wearing at 26…what would her style be like right now? Would she be wearing the ultra-wide jeans? Or leggings and oversized shirt. Or like the young lady across the room in the layered dress, The one who just caught my eye and quietly smiled, The one who not

“She's imperfect, but she tries She is good, but she lies She is hard on herself She is broken  and won't ask for help She is messy, but she's kind She is lonely  most of the time She is all of this mixed  up and baked  in a beautiful  pie She is gone, but she used to be mine” This was one of the songs Andrea sang at her senior recital, before we even went to see the performance of “The Waitress” at the Paramount. As I look back, I hear the emotion in this song for her. Usu

Here we are, fall again. I used to love fall. It was my favorite season. I loved the change of scenery; the reds, yellows, golden magic around us. Then we lost her in November. What used to be my favorite, became my worst. For the first time I understood seasonal affective disorder. For the first time I needed to find tools to combat the darkness. In just a few short weeks, it will be four years since Andrea ran ahead to heaven. The math is hard here; it will be the 4

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The darkness is creeping in, in so many ways. As I move into fall, what used to be my favorite season, I now need to bolster up my...